@jmorris In the UK we're also 240v, it's very rare to see 3 phase inside a normal house/garage. US 3-phase is much weirder, they have wildly different 3 phase voltages in different places.
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I see you swapped out the connector on the panelpole. I had to do that, too, for my setup. Getting the pin out (and then back in again!) was a pain. Bench vise to the rescue.
West Mountain Radio uses violet+black for 48v on their rigrunner.
https://www.westmountainradio.com/product_info.php?products_id=rr_4008hv_p48
I've seen orange+black or yellow+black for 24v/28v.
@jmorris 240V is not quite as dramatic as that. I've had a few shocks and it's not pleasant but it's not necessarily certain death in a lot of circumstances if you can break the connection between it and you.
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I used a drill press with a drill bit mounted backward to push it out enough to grab onto it, and the bench vise to press it back in.